God help us!!

Texts from Dad: 

"U ur self said u wait 2 long! Didn't get 2 show u cared? Penny caused so much pain u don't want 2 fathom! U hurt me making me mad then bad for it? God help us!!"

-Jan. 6, 2013 8:57AM

"If U only care about mom & her family side then U prove ur Pitted against us cus no one dumps their family for any other reason especialy after finding she lied"

-Jan. 6, 2013 10:44AM

"How do U defend NEVER having a discussion with ur parent about ur problems & the 2 times u did u only lied? Who is messed, who u messing up? Everyone! Even U!"

-Jan. 6, 2013 10:53AM

"If u don't even give Dad a chance 2 channge ur mind then u prove mom pitted u against me! Dare u 2 have a discussion! 2 scared you'll look bad, 2 late!Try Now"

-Jan. 6, 2013 11:09AM

Translation

This blog is verbatim the correspondence between my biological father and I, with the exception of names being changed for the privacy of outside individuals. Any misspellings or seemingly unintelligible texts/emails appeared as such during the correspondence.

The conundrum between Robert and I began four years ago, right before my 18th birthday. This was when I discovered that the man on my birth certificate, whom I had also never met, was not my biological father. However, after a paternity test, Robert was confirmed my biological father and I agreed to meet with him for the first time.

Everything went down hill from there.

I tried to stay open minded, but Richard made it very difficult. This blog consists of the correspondences of today that are the remnants of our relationship and are indicative of the way he has talked to me and treated me from the beginning.

I hope anyone with family or relationship issues can find solace knowing that you are not alone.